This is how you get a good start in daycare or nursery school
Your child is about to start daycare or nursery, and you may be nervous and excited at the same time: Will it be a good and easy start? Is it going to be challenging? One thing you can be sure of: this new period in your life is going to require preparation, patience, cooperation and to-do lists.
It is first of all important to remember that it will take time for your child to adjust to the daycare or nursery. Typically, the start-up phase lasts 1-2 weeks, but it can take several months before your child has settled in completely. The start should not be seen as something that just has to be over - a calm and safe start promotes well-being for both child and parents.
The good cooperation with the staff
In the first period, you, your child and the staff must get to know each other. Good cooperation with the staff is an important factor – you must feel trust and security when you entrust your child to them. The better the cooperation, the more secure your child will feel, because children feel when there is a warm and open relationship between parents and staff.
Talk honestly with the staff about expectations, routines and needs – this gives you a strong starting point for a good start.
An upheaval for both child and parents
It is completely normal for your child to react when they start day care or nursery school. Some children cry when you say goodbye in the morning – others when picked up. It is a big change to have to get used to a new environment and new adults.
Give extra care during this period and remember that it can also be an emotional upheaval for you as a parent. It is normal to feel both joy, pride and sadness when you give your child free time to new surroundings.
To-do list for the daycare and nursery
Ask the staff in advance what your child needs to bring, so you don't forget anything important. Write names on all things so that the children's belongings are not exchanged.
- Extra clothes (also for sleeping in)
- Drooling bib
- Pacifier with name on it
- Home shoes
- Soft cloth or teddy bear
- Rainwear
- Rubber boots
Autumn/Winter: thermal clothing or flight suit, winter boots, hat and mittens
Spring/Summer: outerwear, sun hat and sunscreen
5 good tips for a safe start
- Establish contact with the staff before starting, e.g. via a home visit or a visit to the daycare/nursery.
- Allow plenty of time for the first day.
- Expect reactions from your child.
- Talk to the staff about the best way to say goodbye.
- Be patient – it may take several months before your child has fully settled.
